Imagine this – A 21-year old wearing a blue colored low neck top is bent over a desk, and someone is humping her. She’s yelling, “Yeah baby, pound that narrative into me. Keep on giving me this narrative. I so enjoy this!”
This is precisely what corporate owned media is doing to women all across the globe — pounding the same toxic narrative via all possible available channels – news, articles, stories, movies, youtube, social media, etc.
Let’s get ancient for a moment.
There was a man called Adam and a woman named Eve, and she ate the fruit of knowledge and then offered the same to Adam. They became self-aware, and God kicked them both out from heaven. Before God threw away their belongings from the sky to the ground, God asked Adam – why did he eat the forbidden fruit? Adam played the blame game and accused Eve. That was the breaking point. An irresponsible man blamed his problems on a woman. God became furious and said –
“From this point of time, you need to work to earn the affection of Eve!”
And till date, the sole purpose men try and achieve great things is to find a suitable woman. Some are aware, some live in denial, some never question their actions, but the most potent driving force in this entire universe is women. The desire to be with an attractive woman laid the foundations of alchemy. The rejection of a woman turned boys into nihilists. Someone’s admiration for a woman gave birth to poetry. Muses made Illiad possible; Homer was a fucking idiot.
Every good thing, which happens, is because of a female. Men who were rejected by women tailor most terrible disasters. And these women come in every form mothers, sisters, lovers, aunts, etc.
I am not undermining this fact that some men must have poorly treated some women. But it is also vice versa. Weak men are treated very poorly by women who crave power. The narrative is the same — the gender changes.
Now before you bash that pitchfork you are holding, into my skull, hear me out.
For centuries men and women have held hands and fought against the perils of nature. A recent shift indicates that people enjoy more time in nature. What about those times when snakes and alligators used to lurk? Do you think men had nothing better to do than oppress women? Think about it. Lives were at stake. You needed as much help as you could gather. Men used to make tools and women used to raise children. At the same time, women contributed to society also.
If these new age feminists claim that overall patriarchy ruined their lives, they are not demeaning men. Men barely care. They are degrading other women. All those great women who contributed to the creation of this beautiful planet, their sacrifices are being made meaningless. Also, consider this that birth control pills and menstrual pads were inventions by men. Women could not integrate into the workforce completely before 1960′ because there were not many ways to avoid pregnancy.
I see some of you have barrels of gasoline and are ready to pour it on me. It is okay if you do so but before you light me up, consider this. There were women like Khadija, Razia Sultana, Laxmi Bai, Mother Teresa, and the list goes on. What about these women?
How about Khaleesi? Does that ring a bell? Do you think they got lucky?
No, they were not freaking lucky. They fought a tough fight and rose ranks in society. Men do the same. We do not get things smooth. Nobody gets it easy. You need to have courage. Light me on fire if you will but if you think someone will hand you over all the opportunities then sorry to break your heart sister – “that ain’t gonna happen!”
Rise above this propaganda bullshit that men oppressed you. Men are bullied all the time. Men fight wars. Men engage in high-risk jobs. Men live a lonelier life. Not because it’s easy but only because we choose to. We all get to make choices.
Be a strong woman. Fight beside me fairly. Fight the fights we men fight. Remember, Vikings crossed seas without a compass because they were courageous not because they beat their wives.
Call me sexist, call me misogynist but sister you need to change your perspective.
I was raped as a kid by men, that doesn’t make all the men sick. People are evil. Evil is gender neutral. People are capable of doing terrible, painful acts. It is not gender related. Men and women had it bad equally.
Maybe your father mistreated your mother, but that makes your father a wrong person. That doesn’t make men evil. Perhaps I have mommy issues, that’s my problem, I can’t blame women for it.
The truth is the world is for those who can conquer not for those who wallow. Nobody gives a shit about your problems. Gear up, fight a battle and win. If you expect that men will someday give you 50% of everything, wake up. It will never happen. No pounding can change reality. Weave as many narratives as you can. The truth will prevail.
Boys never had all the fun!
Feel free to light that matchstick now, if you have the courage.