Boys never had all the fun!

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Imagine this – A 21-year old wearing a blue colored low neck top is bent over a desk, and someone is humping her. She’s yelling, “Yeah baby, pound that narrative into me. Keep on giving me this narrative. I so enjoy this!”
This is precisely what corporate owned media is doing to women all across the globe — pounding the same toxic narrative via all possible available channels – news, articles, stories, movies, youtube, social media, etc.
Let’s get ancient for a moment.
There was a man called Adam and a woman named Eve, and she ate the fruit of knowledge and then offered the same to Adam. They became self-aware, and God kicked them both out from heaven. Before God threw away their belongings from the sky to the ground, God asked Adam – why did he eat the forbidden fruit? Adam played the blame game and accused Eve. That was the breaking point. An irresponsible man blamed his problems on a woman. God became furious and said –
“From this point of time, you need to work to earn the affection of Eve!”
And till date, the sole purpose men try and achieve great things is to find a suitable woman. Some are aware, some live in denial, some never question their actions, but the most potent driving force in this entire universe is women. The desire to be with an attractive woman laid the foundations of alchemy. The rejection of a woman turned boys into nihilists. Someone’s admiration for a woman gave birth to poetry. Muses made Illiad possible; Homer was a fucking idiot.
Every good thing, which happens, is because of a female. Men who were rejected by women tailor most terrible disasters. And these women come in every form mothers, sisters, lovers, aunts, etc.
I am not undermining this fact that some men must have poorly treated some women. But it is also vice versa. Weak men are treated very poorly by women who crave power. The narrative is the same — the gender changes.
Now before you bash that pitchfork you are holding, into my skull, hear me out.
For centuries men and women have held hands and fought against the perils of nature. A recent shift indicates that people enjoy more time in nature. What about those times when snakes and alligators used to lurk? Do you think men had nothing better to do than oppress women? Think about it. Lives were at stake. You needed as much help as you could gather. Men used to make tools and women used to raise children. At the same time, women contributed to society also.
If these new age feminists claim that overall patriarchy ruined their lives, they are not demeaning men. Men barely care. They are degrading other women. All those great women who contributed to the creation of this beautiful planet, their sacrifices are being made meaningless. Also, consider this that birth control pills and menstrual pads were inventions by men. Women could not integrate into the workforce completely before 1960′ because there were not many ways to avoid pregnancy.
I see some of you have barrels of gasoline and are ready to pour it on me. It is okay if you do so but before you light me up, consider this. There were women like Khadija, Razia Sultana, Laxmi Bai, Mother Teresa, and the list goes on. What about these women?
How about Khaleesi? Does that ring a bell? Do you think they got lucky?
No, they were not freaking lucky. They fought a tough fight and rose ranks in society. Men do the same. We do not get things smooth. Nobody gets it easy. You need to have courage. Light me on fire if you will but if you think someone will hand you over all the opportunities then sorry to break your heart sister – “that ain’t gonna happen!”
Rise above this propaganda bullshit that men oppressed you. Men are bullied all the time. Men fight wars. Men engage in high-risk jobs. Men live a lonelier life. Not because it’s easy but only because we choose to. We all get to make choices.

Be a strong woman. Fight beside me fairly. Fight the fights we men fight. Remember, Vikings crossed seas without a compass because they were courageous not because they beat their wives.
Call me sexist, call me misogynist but sister you need to change your perspective.
I was raped as a kid by men, that doesn’t make all the men sick. People are evil. Evil is gender neutral. People are capable of doing terrible, painful acts. It is not gender related. Men and women had it bad equally.
Maybe your father mistreated your mother, but that makes your father a wrong person. That doesn’t make men evil. Perhaps I have mommy issues, that’s my problem, I can’t blame women for it.
The truth is the world is for those who can conquer not for those who wallow. Nobody gives a shit about your problems. Gear up, fight a battle and win. If you expect that men will someday give you 50% of everything, wake up. It will never happen. No pounding can change reality. Weave as many narratives as you can. The truth will prevail.
Boys never had all the fun!
Feel free to light that matchstick now, if you have the courage.

Champions For Choice?

Recently, Lisa Hayden said she wants to have kids and loves cooking. Sounds normal right?

Not to feminists.

What ensued was a storm of raging, indignant voices, almost all feminist, tweeting, posting, writing about how that single statement by Lisa Hayden, was somehow enough to drag all of femininity back to the dark ages.

You see there’s a deep rooted belief in the mind of every feminist that only ‘women'(who stick to their ideology that is) have suffered throughout history & now, It’s OK even if sometimes in their pursuit for ‘equality ‘, they do get a little unfair in their evaluations. Men have had ‘power’for so long thanks to ‘patriarchy’ , that a little lack of logical reasoning is only legitimate in the feminist hemisphere.’

See I don’t get it! And you can’t blame me because it’s so blatantly hypocritical. No feminist protested the words of Hillary Clinton when she said “I suppose I could have stayed home and baked cookies and had teas, but what I decided to do was to fulfill my profession, which I entered before my husband was in public life”

OR when Betty Friedan said “[Housewives] are mindless and thing-hungry…not people. [Housework] is peculiarly suited to the capacities of feeble-minded girls. [It] arrests their development at an infantile level, short of personal identity with an inevitably weak core of self…. [Housewives] are in as much danger as the millions who walked to their own death in the concentration camps.”

OR when Gloria Steinem said “No woman should be authorized to stay at home and raise her children. Women should not have that choice, precisely because if there is such a choice, too many women will make that one.”

They don’t bat an eye lid when a feminist says “Kill all men!”

But one interview from a little known star wife, who said “I am a housewife and wear that label with pride. Why can’t you be an accomplished homemaker? Accomplishing could mean anything one has their heart set on. I had a tough pregnancy, bringing Misha (her seven-month-old daughter) into this world. Now, I love being at home and spending time with my child. I don’t want to spend an hour with her and then rush to work. It’s not that I am not a woman of today. You don’t have to compromise on traditions and ideals to be modern. Why did I have her? She is not a puppy, you know. I want to be there for her as a mother; seeing her grow up cannot be quantified,”

was enough to break all chains of hell lose! Frankly, none of what the star wife said seemed illogical or offensive to me but to feminists, this was an extreme view and those of Gloria Steinem and the like are not!

Apparently, the advocates for ‘choice for women’ have taken it upon themselves to run other women down, who do not subscribe to their ideas and chose to adopt more traditional roles.

Radhika Vaz, a feminist comedian went on to write the following on Twitter

“The next bitch who says she’s not a feminist needs to pay dowry and then perform Sati. And be married off at age 11. And no school for you”.

Of course, there were interesting replies soon after, but those of us with a different viewpoint were accused of lacking a sense of humor.

The point is, not only was the tweet not funny, it wasn’t anywhere close to facts either because, none of the issues that she mentions were ever tackled by feminism. Feminism deals with important issues like freeing the nipple, internet censorship, trigger warning, slut shaming, demeaning women who choose traditional life styles, blaming men for all their problems, wanting a free pass in life etc etc where do they have the time to end child marriage or slavery, or women burning themselves on the pyre of a dead husband.

This is why, I’d like to point out to Radhika, and others like her holding up the ‘I need feminism because…’ placards, that I’m not a feminist because I know it’s not about equal rights but about absolute supremacy.

What started off as a movement to get women the right to vote and own property has long been hijacked by a group of radicals who cannot match you logic to logic, want to be able to get away with murder, literally so, and be called a victim all their life.

These feminists are not okay with men who are interested in what they earn, but wouldn’t marry a poor guy in a million years…

These are the kind of feminists, who have instigated the rise of the MGTOW or Men Going Their Own Way movement, thus attacking the family system, forcing men to shun chivalry while complaining about the dearth of good men in society.

True feminism must defend a woman’s right to choose at any cost. It must be left to the woman to choose to work or be a stay at home mum. Isn’t that what having a choice really means?

Like any social movement, timely reforms in ideology are both important and inevitable. It’s time now, to balance the act and glorify the choice of stay at home mothers just as supporting the ambitions of women joining the paid workforce. That’s the only way that feminism can get to retain the title of the eternal defender of women’s choices.

 

Alpha Male

I met her, when I shouldn’t have.

Was still in the journey of finding self.

She charged like a hungry tigress.

Said, ‘Spank me hard, make me a mess.’

I was shocked, for me women are goddess.

My mother, sister and all others of the fairer sex.

But she wanted to be fucked with primal rawness.

Her Bio said, Feminist.

But she just wanted to be treated as SHIT!

After the shouts, screams and orgasms… I tried to cuddle.

But she pushed me hard and said not to expect a love bubble,

As she’s a feminist.

Shocked, I wandered. Few weeks later,

She said, ‘I am in love with someone better.’

He’s an Alpha Male and knows his thrusts.

Gives me love and slaps my breasts.

I said, ‘Miss Feminist, What’s this shit?

You want respect but you fuck with hate.’

She slapped, On my face, reality got mapped.

She went away, leaving me in disarray.

Nik said, ‘It’s okay. I need it for my ART!’

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