Boys never had all the fun!

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Imagine this – A 21-year old wearing a blue colored low neck top is bent over a desk, and someone is humping her. She’s yelling, “Yeah baby, pound that narrative into me. Keep on giving me this narrative. I so enjoy this!”
This is precisely what corporate owned media is doing to women all across the globe — pounding the same toxic narrative via all possible available channels – news, articles, stories, movies, youtube, social media, etc.
Let’s get ancient for a moment.
There was a man called Adam and a woman named Eve, and she ate the fruit of knowledge and then offered the same to Adam. They became self-aware, and God kicked them both out from heaven. Before God threw away their belongings from the sky to the ground, God asked Adam – why did he eat the forbidden fruit? Adam played the blame game and accused Eve. That was the breaking point. An irresponsible man blamed his problems on a woman. God became furious and said –
“From this point of time, you need to work to earn the affection of Eve!”
And till date, the sole purpose men try and achieve great things is to find a suitable woman. Some are aware, some live in denial, some never question their actions, but the most potent driving force in this entire universe is women. The desire to be with an attractive woman laid the foundations of alchemy. The rejection of a woman turned boys into nihilists. Someone’s admiration for a woman gave birth to poetry. Muses made Illiad possible; Homer was a fucking idiot.
Every good thing, which happens, is because of a female. Men who were rejected by women tailor most terrible disasters. And these women come in every form mothers, sisters, lovers, aunts, etc.
I am not undermining this fact that some men must have poorly treated some women. But it is also vice versa. Weak men are treated very poorly by women who crave power. The narrative is the same — the gender changes.
Now before you bash that pitchfork you are holding, into my skull, hear me out.
For centuries men and women have held hands and fought against the perils of nature. A recent shift indicates that people enjoy more time in nature. What about those times when snakes and alligators used to lurk? Do you think men had nothing better to do than oppress women? Think about it. Lives were at stake. You needed as much help as you could gather. Men used to make tools and women used to raise children. At the same time, women contributed to society also.
If these new age feminists claim that overall patriarchy ruined their lives, they are not demeaning men. Men barely care. They are degrading other women. All those great women who contributed to the creation of this beautiful planet, their sacrifices are being made meaningless. Also, consider this that birth control pills and menstrual pads were inventions by men. Women could not integrate into the workforce completely before 1960′ because there were not many ways to avoid pregnancy.
I see some of you have barrels of gasoline and are ready to pour it on me. It is okay if you do so but before you light me up, consider this. There were women like Khadija, Razia Sultana, Laxmi Bai, Mother Teresa, and the list goes on. What about these women?
How about Khaleesi? Does that ring a bell? Do you think they got lucky?
No, they were not freaking lucky. They fought a tough fight and rose ranks in society. Men do the same. We do not get things smooth. Nobody gets it easy. You need to have courage. Light me on fire if you will but if you think someone will hand you over all the opportunities then sorry to break your heart sister – “that ain’t gonna happen!”
Rise above this propaganda bullshit that men oppressed you. Men are bullied all the time. Men fight wars. Men engage in high-risk jobs. Men live a lonelier life. Not because it’s easy but only because we choose to. We all get to make choices.

Be a strong woman. Fight beside me fairly. Fight the fights we men fight. Remember, Vikings crossed seas without a compass because they were courageous not because they beat their wives.
Call me sexist, call me misogynist but sister you need to change your perspective.
I was raped as a kid by men, that doesn’t make all the men sick. People are evil. Evil is gender neutral. People are capable of doing terrible, painful acts. It is not gender related. Men and women had it bad equally.
Maybe your father mistreated your mother, but that makes your father a wrong person. That doesn’t make men evil. Perhaps I have mommy issues, that’s my problem, I can’t blame women for it.
The truth is the world is for those who can conquer not for those who wallow. Nobody gives a shit about your problems. Gear up, fight a battle and win. If you expect that men will someday give you 50% of everything, wake up. It will never happen. No pounding can change reality. Weave as many narratives as you can. The truth will prevail.
Boys never had all the fun!
Feel free to light that matchstick now, if you have the courage.

Son Of Patriarchy : An Open Letter

Dear Daughter of Matriarchy,

It feels good to be able to express myself. The world today does not appreciate a Son of Patriarchy trying to tell a Daughter of Matriarchy ‘her place’. But you would know, that that’s not my intention. You see, our ‘arch’ rival, Matriarchy, who has always been around but has failed to gain a stronghold in society as we have, is always jealous of our success & acceptance. But I must say she does lack the drive to charge forward & fight for the throne, therefore, she keeps a low profile & rarely causes any trouble. But you daughters of Matriarchy have caused trouble from time to time . In fact, somehow, you have even managed to have your way in brother Supreme Court, first cousin Judicial System & our very own son, the constitution too! In fact the legal kin have bent over so much to your whim that it’s almost like they’ve had a sex change! And why not, your liberal pursuits are thoroughly backed by power hungry maniacs with a very distinct & clear agenda.

At first we were extremely generous. The demands were logical, why wouldn’t we be?

It’s only fair for a daughter of matriarchy to have equal footing in terms of education, owning property & the right to vote just as the sons of patriarchy do. so we granted that wish. Instead of acknowledging our generosity, we were belittled & a smear campaign was started against us. Is that how you repay people who accept your demand ?

It was said that we ‘gave in’ & that woman power made this happen. No. We just felt it would make absolutely no difference to us if women wanted to own property or gain an education or the right to vote etc. We had been dealing with this nonsense for centuries! Goodness knows what a herculean task it is to ensure that your family in particular & society in general is protected, fed, clothed & well looked after! We sure could use some help! We just hesitated at first because we knew this was a bother, an necessary evil & we were gentlemen who were chivalrous. We cared about your happiness & wanted to protect you from these burdens. Also, we felt you were already occupied with the heavy task of raising another human being! We noticed how you absolutely loved running a house of your own! No wonder you hate socks lying around & a wet towel on the bed & a kitchen full of dirty dishes. You hated it back then too. You instinctively knew what to do with the babies who grew in you & we loved them because you showed us how! We did the toiling & you baked the bread. We built the house & you made it a home. It was perfect. Alas, all good things come to an end. So did this golden age of happiness. 

Look at what you’ve done now! This is EXACTLY why our ancestors were hesitant to give you power & control. For with power comes great responsibility, & that you do not accept, till date. You want the freedom to roam about alone at night, but you shun the responsibility to protect yourself. You look towards the authorities, the society, us sons of patriarchy, to ensure that a safe haven is somehow created for you. We always knew the world was an unsafe place. We knew it when we were cavemen & stepped out to hunt. How do you suppose we captured our next meal? We risked our lives in doing so. Back then you knew it too. But as time went by, your mind was manipulated by those among us who seek total control. And they are using you to break what we know of a nurtured home, a strong family, a moral society. When would you realize this?

You want sons of patriarchy to give up our natural instinct of aggression & leadership. But at the same time, you expect protection & chivalry. And we don,t blame you for that because we know that’s not you, that’s the battle you lose within yourself each day as you fight your own inner instinct of being a nurturer & your manipulated mind forces you to become something you are not.

Crime against children is at it’s highest today. Any idea why that is? What do you suppose would happen when you snatch a child away from the loving arms of his mother , who has been tricked into believing she is of no worth if she doesn’t join the workforce, & shove him in a room full of other lost children being taken care of by an attendant, a stranger or at home alone in the custody of a nanny, All of these strangers have absolutely no natural instinct to protect or nurture the child. 

Why can’t the father stay at home you ask. Well a father just might. There are fathers who are doing it. But tell me this, why can’t you? Nature believed in you when she decided that instead of the father, it would be you, the mother who would bear the child & bring him into this world & for this task, mother nature prepared you too. She gave you a forgiving heart, a soft embrace, a creative bent of mind. So much so that even your body is shaped to nurture a little human being. You are the first person he recognizes, the first person he trusts, the only person who can feed him for a good amount of time, the only person who understands what he says even when he doesn’t speak. What more does nature have to give you, what words does one need to spell out to you, for you to realize that this is your most natural role? Of course you must pursue your talents. You are creative, no doubt about that. But the key to a fulfilling life is to strike a balance & assume the role that is meant for you.

Please think it over. If not for us, then for the sake of the children.

Yours Truly,

Son Of Patriarchy

 

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